Gangsta Mittens
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Archive for the ‘Divorce’ Category

“I’m so excited!!! I’m so… scared” © Jesse Spano

May 25, 2008

So i’m 9 hours away from getting on the plane to head to SF… I’m terrified. Besides thinking that I’m not qualified, I’m terrified at being so far away from home for so long. When I first got separated back in 2005, I realized that it was my first time living alone. Since that time, […]

Plodding Thru

June 27, 2007

The closer I get to leaving for San Fran the more stuff I realize that I have to do. Now granted most of this accumulation is the result of my procrastination but there are a lot of other things that I legitimately need to get done. B has been a tremendous help. He’s cleaned damn […]


April 19, 2007

I’ve been trying to start this blog for hours but… I just don’t know what to say. Today I was official granted an absolute divorce i.e. my marriage is over. The hearing itself was pretty uneventful. No outbursts, more laffing than I would have expected. It was just an ordinary day at the courthouse. The […]

Thanks, Sam

April 16, 2007

There been times that I thought I wouldn’t last for longNow think I’m able to carry onIt’s been a long, along time coming but I knowA change gon’ come, oh yes it will… There is a whirlwind of activity surrounding me right now… passports, court appearances, car maintenance… So much is going on. Between the […]


April 10, 2007

I’m 9 days away from the end of my marriage. I honestly don’t even know what I feel. Maybe that’s because I kind of always knew it would happen. Don’t get me wrong, i wanted things to work out and I believed in our relationship. But sometimes people aren’t ready. Some folks have suggested that […]